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Gratitude

As we continue into the “Thanks” giving weekend, I realize I’m thankful for so much more than the usual “family and friends”. Appreciation is the ability to recognize and understand the worth, quality or importance of something with full awareness. Don’t get me wrong. My family is my life and my friends are great. However, these days I’m grateful for the peace I have in knowing that every challenge and trial I face brings me closer to the person I am meant to be. I am thankful for knowledge I have and continue to gain by being a perpetual student regarding health and wellness and for the ability to share that through my blog and in my community. I learn so much from the people who share the details of their lives with me, because nutrition is more than food. We need to be fed and nurtured emotionally and spiritually or life is out of balance. The Christmas holiday is right around the corner. Don’t get caught up in the commercial frenzy of the “shop ’til you drop” mindset. Save your hard earned money and what little energy you have and focus on the one thing that will make a difference in the lives of your friends and family: YOU! Your time and attention. Put your wallet away. Turn your phone off. Make a fire and some hot cocoa and play a game with your kids. Put on some soft music and hold your spouse close. Call your mother. We are not guaranteed tomorrow so make the most of 86,400 seconds you have today! I know I will!

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Stay Vibrant,
Tonya

 

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Spring Cleaning: Ridding Yourself of Toxic People

Seven days. Just seven more days until we claim ALL of our house back. You may have noticed that my weekly blog hasn’t been so weekly. In fact, it hasn’t even been monthly. Back in January, my husband and I moved from our tiny, cozy apartment into a gigantic 3,000 square foot house situated on almost three acres. Along with Trent, who’s 15 and already lives with us, we invited our almost 20 year old daughter and her on-again-off-again “boyfriend” to move in as well. My husband and I thought this was a great idea as they would have their own space, be able to save some money, and if they “broke up” at least she would be home and he would have to go.

Well. Here we are two months later and we are counting down the days until they move back out. I love her to death, him not so much. I was willing to put how I felt about him aside and come from a place of understanding and compassion because it seemed the right thing to do. That lasted five minutes. I won’t bore you with the myriad of reasons why I can’t even tolerate being in the same room with this kid. But I do know this. Having tension and negative energy permeating my home has taken its toll on ALL of the occupants, even my pets! I am not a hater and I refuse to let the immature actions of someone I don’t care to know make me into one.

Negative energy, people, relationships can all have an effect on your health just as much as crappy food and sitting around the house watching television. Today’s moral? Rid yourself of anyone in your life who does not encourage, support or add anything positive to your life. The sooner the better. For us? Just seven more days…

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Stay Vibrant!
Tonya